Kink + Poly Relationships
What are kink and polyamory?
Polyamory and kink are two separate but related concepts within the broader field of consensual non-monogamy and alternative sexuality.
Polyamory is the practice of having romantic and/or sexual relationships with multiple partners, with the knowledge and consent of all parties involved. It is based on the idea that love and intimacy can be experienced and shared in many ways, and that individuals should have the freedom to pursue the relationships that are most meaningful and fulfilling to them.
Kink, on the other hand, refers to a range of alternative sexual practices and interests that are often considered taboo or non-traditional. This can include BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism), fetishism, role-playing, and other forms of consensual power exchange.
How can therapy help?
Therapy can be a helpful resource for individuals or couples who are exploring these alternative lifestyles. A therapist can help individuals navigate the complex emotional and interpersonal dynamics of polyamorous and kink relationships, work through issues such as jealousy, communication, and boundary-setting, and explore the ethical and practical considerations involved in these lifestyles. Therapy can also help individuals and couples explore their desires and interests in a safe and supportive environment, and work through any feelings of shame, stigma, or internalized oppression that may arise.
In kink therapy the treatment goal is not reflective or your desires or sexuality, unless that is something that you specifically want to target. A kink therapist won’t try to “fix” you or “change” your sexual self. We will help you look in to integrating kink into your life. We will work on alleviating any feelings of guilt or shame that might be tied to them because well let’s be real, American culture continues to promote and highlight “conventional” sexual practices which can cause shame to be associated with being less conventional.
